I hate stupid people
I went up to my son's school yesterday to eat lunch with him. I wanted to get out of the house I've been down lately I've been really upset about lossing my babies so anyway I was leaving and this other mother that I know Said (in her loudest voice) OMG are you pregnant! I said no. She said oh I saw you were walking funny and your shirt looks like a menternity top. I said well I just had my Hip replaced. My shirt was a cute baby doll top that everyone wears. Needless to say I just walked away from her with a couple of not so nice words going through my head! Love to all!
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UGH!!!!! people just don\'t know when to keep their mouths shut. I am sorry that you had to go through that, though I am glad that you got out of the house for a bit and had a lunch date with your son!! That must have been so nice for both of you!!!!
someone asked me if i was pregnant one time after i had surgery and i was still bloated but it was after a miscarriage too. i said no but i just lost my baby thanks a lot for reminding me of something i\'ll never forget. they felt bad. they should feel bad. people suck! i\'m sorry. love and hugs, meg
I hate them too! I\'m totally with you. Being the wound tight kinda girl that I am, it\'s amazing that I haven\'t gone after the insensitive people around me. But most of them have no idea like the guy told me I shouldn\'t be writing articles for a family magazine because I don\'t have a family like two weeks have my D&C. I really wanted to say something but I wouldn\'t undo what\'s happened so what\'s the point.
But I think you should enjoy the great time you and your son had together. Don\'t let stupidity ruin it for you. I bet your son loved it more than you\'ll ever know.
I hate that. Why do people say things like that we they dont know for sure. Hugs
People need to understand that it is not ok to ask that...can you say open mouth insert foot!!! Man that drives me crazy. I am glad you got out for a while...hope you didn\'t let the stupid women ruin your lunch with your son. Huge hugs to you sweetie.
Don\'t you just hate people like that? I am always so cautious about saying anything about pregnancy. I guess that is the difference between a normal person ans someone struggling with IF.