I hate myself.

I don't know of what i did wrong.... but i hate myself. I am so hard on myself all the time. it's driving me crazy. Right now I am obsessively hating myself and being hard on myself. I won't give myself a break. I can't. I'm going crazy. I don't know what to do. I feel like driving a car off a cliff, or stabbing myself in the chest, no my stomach because it hurts so bad. I am so lost....... and unfulfilled..... and at war with myself.... and I have no future. what is wrong with me? God gave me many talents... and I'm putting myself down so much that I can't access them anymore... I talked to this guy and I discovered through talking to him that I feel I am unworthy of love and that I feel I deserve to suffer and that I want men to hurt me, physically and emotionally and that I like it... WHAT? What the hell is that?? We got deep into our conversation and I got deep into me. And I hate me. I wish I would just die. I hate me even more for saying that. My therapist wants me to go to art school and is pushing me to do it... I DONT WANT TO GO TO ART SCHOOL !!!!!!! I don't know what I want to do. I want to be whole. I want to be happy. I want to heal. But right now, I am suffering.

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grenadine
grenadine

I have gained weight in like 3 days.... I\'m fat now too.
surferchica
surferchica

I am sorry you are suffering so much.
grenadine
grenadine

thank you for caring, it really helped me a lot.
deleted_user
deleted_user

hmm sounds like me. I feel that way a lot of the time, especially when im close with a guy it becomes amplified and I want to push them away or I act crazy to scare them away. I have no idea what is wrong. Some sort of deep seated fear of intimacy.
grenadine
grenadine

maybe you\'re right...
deleted_user
deleted_user

When your at war with yourself you know theres always gonna be one loser... yourself!! Have to learn to accept yourself whatever way u are only thencan u start to build..