I hate family

I texted my brother to tell him I love him and to tell his wife and kids I love them.  He texted me back he will not speak again to me for a long long time.  He is pissed at me and we are a bunch of liers.  I told him I forgive him anyway.  I told him I felt sorry for him.  He claims to be Christian.  he said some mean things to me.  I am so hurt and in tears.  I told him I owuld pray that God melts his cold and bitter heart. 
I was sick.  I went to the hospital.  Not a single one of them called to see if I was ok.  Ever. 
I hate family.  I just don't want to deal with any of them.  They don't even like me.  Why do I even bother?