I had an argument with my mother.
Yesterday, I had a big argument with my mother, because she spoils my son too much. My son is 27 years old and acts like a baby. I love him very much, but sometimes he just, drives me crazy. I am Christian, but I'm not stupid and there are some things that I don't approve. He is very quiet, doesn't like to go out, he is always isolated from the family and I know, he has a Psycological Problem. He doesn't like to be bothered, meaning that when I call him for anything, he answers despectively. I have tried every kind of approach with him, but they don't work. I've also tried talkin g to him. I pray for him and my mother every day, but sometimes I lose my patience with them. Right now I have a headache from thinking so much about what to do. Please let me know what all of you think about this family matter, because it's really getting out of hand. I would really appreciate your comments. Hugs and Kisses, Bonchi.(Ivonne)
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since he\'s 27 there\'s not much you can do unless a person is going to physicaly hurt themselves or other people.I dunno ,sorry , wish I could help.
Ivonne, I can tell you\'re torn up. I\'m not one to give much advice; but to me it sounds like you need to give yourself a break. We may be Christians, but we\'re not perfect, nor can we understand and be sympathetic all the time. Do your best, but don\'t be hard on yourself. I get really bothered by some things w/ my husband\'s family and lately I\'ve been telling myself that I can\'t control them, I can only control me. Hope some of this helps. I\'m keeping you in my prayers.
Dear Ivonne,
I can only reiterate what Katie Rae has told you. Give yourself a break and don\'t be so hard on yourself. Remember, you can\'t control others you can only control yourself. I\'ll be praying for you.
God Bless,
Lee
Thank you very much for your advice, I really appreciate everybody\'s help. I feel better already. Hugs and Kisses, Ivonne.