i got married.
well the day finally arrived and on the 29th of february me and paul got married. what with getting our new home just before christmas and now getting married i couldn't be happier. i never imagined meeting anyone as special as paul, let alone that we'd end up married. i was diagnosed with narcolepsy the year before we met, and i wouldn't have blamed him if he ran a mile but he didn't. the fact that my narcolepsy doesn't bother him, and he couldn't care less about my cleft, plus the fact that he took on both my kids and treats them as his own makes him one in a million. we had a great day and i look forward to the rest of our lives together.
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Hi Cally,
It sounds you have had a rough time and you deserve all the happiness with Paul. I also have a 14 year old and was also diagnosed myelf with N within two years of meeting my partner. Like you I didn\'t think that I\'d meet anyone and had given up and was quite happy with my life. It wasn\'t until I started living with my partner (my daughter was six by then) that I realised that I slept too much. Also how many times I fell asleep in the daytime at odd times. My partner (Iain) is very understanding and as my condition has got worse, I think he was sent to get me through it. My daughter wants me to drive her places, but I gave up my licence aftrer falling asleep at the wheel. She also wants to go to concerts with me, but I\'d fall asleep and wouldn\'t be able to stand up for that lenght of time. This I find furstrating as my mum was paralysed when I was ten and I was looking forward to doing all the things with my daughter that my mum couldn\'t do with me. I don\'t want my daughter resenting me. I paid my friend to take her to see Rhianna and sugarbabes and now to take her to dance lessons. I am missing out on all these special times with her but at least she knows I love her.
Changing the subjet would it help to get a report from your GP, neurologist stating that stress has a major role in N & C and going to CAB to write a statment to your counsel for moving house.