I feel trapped...
I am feeling trapped. My husband has a beef with the girl that lives downstairs from us. Granted that she is a little disrespectful at times...i don't think she realizes it. He also has a beef with our landlord who fails to make repairs on this house that we are renting from him, and he plans on sueing both of them. He doesn't realize how much his reactions are affecting my health. My blood pressure has gone sky high lately....going as high as 198/126 just last Thursday. He is going to cause me to have a heart attack or a stroke soon, if my blood pressure keeps climbing.
I just can't keep this up, it is so frustrating...i don't know what to do!! All i know is that i don't want to be evicted by causing trouble (due to my husbands actions), and i don't want to cause problems with my downstairs neighbour either....but i feel like i have to take the side of my husband (if i have to take sides).
I just can't keep this up, it is so frustrating...i don't know what to do!! All i know is that i don't want to be evicted by causing trouble (due to my husbands actions), and i don't want to cause problems with my downstairs neighbour either....but i feel like i have to take the side of my husband (if i have to take sides).
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I hear you but when it comes to men there isn\'t much you can do about them. Some men are all talk and maybe that is what your hubby is. If that is so, can you write letters to the landlord and neighbor explaining the problems. Send them certified so you have proof that they received them. It will help if it comes down to a lawsuit.
Yes, i hear what you are saying, but unfortunately my hubby is not all talk. If he doesn\'t do this the right way, he could get us evicted! This is causing my anxiety levels to skyrocket.... and make my blood pressure to skyrocket as well...like 198/126 (instead of 120/80), and that could cause me to have a heart attack or stroke at any minute. I know it\'s coming but just don\'t know when. He just doesn\'t see how all of this stress is affecting me. I am going to give up SOON!! I don\'t know what elae to do!!
hi Bay::: that\'s rough for you, because you need peace, and need to get your health back by not being stressed. It\'s hard to do that when you rely on others to keep the peace that\'s for sure. I wish I had a solution for you, but know what I\'d do and it probably wouldn\'t be good for you though and think you\'ll work this out when you\'ve had enough. Much love xo
I\'m sorry you are going through this, bay. Hugs.
Ask your doc to put you on medication for high blood pressure.
Can you sit w/your hubby and gently tell him how it\'s affecting you.
No accusations, no yelling...just \"honey, did you know that my blood pressure has gone up.....or I\'m getting upset about this situation and it\'s affecting my bloodpressure. Something like that.