i dont mind helping going through your baby items
Ok so tonight me n hubby had a nice dinner... After we left the restaurant our bestest friends in the whole wide world texted an asked if we mind stopping by to see them. Of course we dont mind. She is 20 weeks pregnant with a boy. I would be 23 weeks if i wouldnt of m/c. Well when we there she asked if i mind helping her go through an seperate the clothes she had gotten from sum one today an her husband needed help from my husband. I dont mind helping they mean so much to us. Then while we were going through the clothes she asked if i would mind doing the cake for the baby shower n help her register being the nice person iam i said yes... ggrrr why cant i say NO to anyone or anything? But i dont recent her..
Iam just FRUSTRATED... I wish we could be going through this together. My poor hubby could tell i was frustrated. an he knows i cant say NO. i got home an i feel like this all is just a dream, I know it all is not a dream but sum times i do pinch my self n double check this is real life an i really am going through this. Iam just so frustrated no one should have to go through this. I feel like iam being punished for sumthing i done wrong...I have always loved babies lets just say iam a baby addict.
am i crazy ????
Iam just FRUSTRATED... I wish we could be going through this together. My poor hubby could tell i was frustrated. an he knows i cant say NO. i got home an i feel like this all is just a dream, I know it all is not a dream but sum times i do pinch my self n double check this is real life an i really am going through this. Iam just so frustrated no one should have to go through this. I feel like iam being punished for sumthing i done wrong...I have always loved babies lets just say iam a baby addict.
am i crazy ????
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Im sorry, your not crazy at all!!! Sounds like u and I are having the same kinda night! ((( HUGS)))
Wow. I don\'t think I could have sorted baby clothes.... yikes. I know she probably does not understand that those things are too difficult for you. Can you order a cake and get someone else to register with her? I am so sorry that your baby is in heaven and hers isn\'t.
That\'s a really tough one. If she is really your best friend, you should have the ability to be honest with her about how you feel. If she is a true friend, she will support you, no matter what.
thanks ladies after a long talk with hubby n her iam not going to register with her. Her husband is going to take a day off work n go. An i did promise i would do the cake. Iam a cake decorator by nite so this will help me i might get a few customers out of it...
I could barely read that without feeling awful for you. You are one tough cookie! I\'m glad that you and your husband found a better alternative. Be sure to post pics of the cake! I wouldn\'t be able to give that part of it up. My side job is photography and I can\'t give up taking pictures of babies and kids. I just feel like crap after lol