I couldn’t do it

He hinted me to go outiside and I couldn't do it. I love him but I am not even ready for a first kiss. What is wrong with me?


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CaliforniaItalianlover
CaliforniaItalianlover

Idk??
Maybe you were nervous.
Or like you said your not ready.
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09

I feel really bad but he understands and asked to tell him when I am ready
Nutin_Special
Nutin_Special

Nothing. I was scared for a bit before my first altho idk if he wanted to. When it did happen it was super mixed. Should I have? shouldn't I? Is this what it's like and so on. It's something you'll never forget. Make it special. Mine was on May 5th. Yep. That day.
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09

Aw
Kiwasicu
Kiwasicu

I think you're just not ready yet. There's nothing wrong with you. Girls take things like this more seriously and carefully considered than boys do. Boys tend be too quick to want to experience the first kiss or first sexual moment because their thinking with their penis and not their brain. Sometimes they put very little thought in and just want the moment to happen forgetting that their partner has feelings and opinions too. Girls sometimes have to tell boys with assertiveness to slow down or no were not doing this, I'm not ready yet. And actually mean it. Because in my experience boys don't like to listen unless you use make them listen with a stern voice and make them look you in the eye and know you mean business.
Nutin_Special
Nutin_Special

Kiwasicu dropped the mic. That is all true. Boys can be pushy and show offs so if you're not ready then don't do it.
AnxietyLife09
AnxietyLife09

Ya, I think that he is willing to wait tho. I am very happy he is willing to wait for me. Like, he even asked me if we could hold hands.
CaliforniaItalianlover
CaliforniaItalianlover

That's exactly right Kiwasicu. You got their number. You tell them. You hit the nail on the head with that comment.