I am so sick of them!

I could scream! my sisters owe me money, not a lot but enough to make a difference to my weekly budget and they are both refusing to payme!
My eldest sister used my phone for an internatinal call, and left it off the hook (I mean how f'ing useless is that!) in the end it was $194 more than I usually pay for the phone... I asked her to pay and she said that 'she was waiting for an old bill to come as I owed her money! (WTF) So I argued with her and in the end to keep the peace I took $40.0 off the bill she left me with... She is still refusing to pay! But hey she is darn quick at asking me to baby sit so she can study for her exams! F'ck that for a joke!
Now the younger one, doesn't even had the balls to call me and ask me for a lone... instead, she asks my mother to do it... Its hard to say no to mum, so against my better judgement I said yes. I was supposed to have been paid back a fortnight ago! and now mum tells me that SHE is paying me in two installments!
What hurts the most is that neither of my sisters has ever thanked me, tried to arrange a payment or anything of the sort. I feel used and abused by them and I can't stand it any more. I mean, who the hell do they think they are! I am so sick of their crap, I told my sister that I don't want to see her until she apologises and pays me my money and to my mum to NEVER, EVER  ask me to lend either one of them anything!
 

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JudylynS
JudylynS

That\'s a tough situation you are in! It\'s hard to say no to family. I\'m sorry they have taken advantage of you. I hope they realize one day how lucky they are to have you as a sister. xoxo
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deleted_user

Have not had this happen with family, but with someone just as close as family. Some people just don\'t appreciate what they have sometimes. Hugs to you.
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I am sorry about your situation. If one thing I learn, you can\'t give loans to a friends or family. If you want to help them with money, just write a check and don\'t expect it back. Money situation ruins a lot of families and friendships. It a very sad but true. One of my friends ask me for a money and I wrote her a check for $200.00. She promised to pay me back, but it been more then few months and she never mention that again. But during this time she bough an expensive earrings and a purse. Not to myself, never give money to that person again!!!!