I am Pissed Off!!!!!!!!!
PISSED OFF!!!
My pastor is a VERY great man! However, his wife is a complete bitch! Please listen:
Yesterday I went to their house to attach a small utility trailer to her vehicle….now….when I was fixing her hitch for the trailer..during this time she made her snide remark, “Oh if you can’t lift the trailer to put it on..I will call my ex son-in-law. “ (Her ex son-in-law is a bodybuilder.) When she said that I was devastated…..I said (to my pastor-not her) “I tried for years to look like him and never could.” My pastor immediately said, “You are fine just the way you are!” (And he was very sincere.) This f’ing bitch, after she had time to think about it, said, “Oh!! Did you know he won the Mr. South Carolina Title???” I made NO comment---neither did my pastor. Well…I got the trailer lifted…much to her surprise…and all was good.
Today—my pastor calls me and asks me to come hook up the trailer for her to take home…which I did…no problem….and she was inside while this happened. So, I go with them back to their house and as I was unhooking the light switch, chain, etc….this f’ing bitch says it two times!!! “We can call ___” (her ex son-in-laws name) I was furious…but still was going to complete the task (for my pastor..not her ass!)
Well…as I was jacking up the trailer, she said it a third time!!! I looked at my pastor and I said, “I am out of here!”
You know…I fail to see why GOD allows shit like this to happen in my life!!! Furthermore, I do not understand how my pastor, the great man that he is…got intertwined with such an overbearing, hateful, rude, high strung, heartless, obnoxious, bitch such as her!! But now, I understand why this “hero” of hers is her “EX” son-in-law!! Especially if her daughter is anything like her.
The sad news is…I love my pastor and I loved his church, I have been there a long time….but I can never see myself ever attending there again.
I hope she dies in her sleep and smothers the fires of Hell out tonight.
My pastor is a VERY great man! However, his wife is a complete bitch! Please listen:
Yesterday I went to their house to attach a small utility trailer to her vehicle….now….when I was fixing her hitch for the trailer..during this time she made her snide remark, “Oh if you can’t lift the trailer to put it on..I will call my ex son-in-law. “ (Her ex son-in-law is a bodybuilder.) When she said that I was devastated…..I said (to my pastor-not her) “I tried for years to look like him and never could.” My pastor immediately said, “You are fine just the way you are!” (And he was very sincere.) This f’ing bitch, after she had time to think about it, said, “Oh!! Did you know he won the Mr. South Carolina Title???” I made NO comment---neither did my pastor. Well…I got the trailer lifted…much to her surprise…and all was good.
Today—my pastor calls me and asks me to come hook up the trailer for her to take home…which I did…no problem….and she was inside while this happened. So, I go with them back to their house and as I was unhooking the light switch, chain, etc….this f’ing bitch says it two times!!! “We can call ___” (her ex son-in-laws name) I was furious…but still was going to complete the task (for my pastor..not her ass!)
Well…as I was jacking up the trailer, she said it a third time!!! I looked at my pastor and I said, “I am out of here!”
You know…I fail to see why GOD allows shit like this to happen in my life!!! Furthermore, I do not understand how my pastor, the great man that he is…got intertwined with such an overbearing, hateful, rude, high strung, heartless, obnoxious, bitch such as her!! But now, I understand why this “hero” of hers is her “EX” son-in-law!! Especially if her daughter is anything like her.
The sad news is…I love my pastor and I loved his church, I have been there a long time….but I can never see myself ever attending there again.
I hope she dies in her sleep and smothers the fires of Hell out tonight.
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I\'m sorry u had to go thru this as you were doing such a big favor.
And by the way. Why could not the husband/pastor do the job?? Maybe he doesn\'t want to here what she would say to him !!!
I\'m happy you were doing them a great big favor that was nice of you.
Lol!! That was very nice if you to help her. I have a big mouth. I probably would\'ve put her square in her place and told her off. Situations like this is a true test of patience. You did well!! Hope you are doing well today.
You are much nicer then I am I probably would have told the pastor that it seems his wife would perfer to have her ex son-in-law help and they should see about him coming to help instead.
PS
I retract what I said about hoping she would die in her sleep, I was just mad. Now that I have cooled down.some.and had time to really think about it.I wish and hope she dies a slow, painful, agonizing, tormenting, excruciating death and then smothers the fires of Hellout.
Don\'t let her ignorance effect you. Keep going to that church and kust accept you and her don\'t see eye to eye. God wouldn\'t like you sinking to her level wishn all those hateful things. So just accept that you clash with her and don\'t take her bait. Thats my advice
She sounds just obnoxious. The only thing she should have said was thank you. There have to be people like her in the world for some reason. Sad that she is married to such a nice man.
Ha! I bet her steroid freak of an EX-son in law couldn\'t even lift the thing! Most of those steroid freaks are weaker then the average person they are just pumped full of crap! She can visit her Ex-son in law in the hospital when he gets cancer from all the drugs! Please don\'t stop going to church because of an asshat like that! Believe me what comes around goes around and Karma can be a real BITCH! God bless my brother! PS: I\'m sure she\'s an old fat bitch so reminder her of that :)
Thanks for all posts friends!
SG15223...man...you are good!!! She is an old, fat bitch!!!
I believe that I am pretty much done with church, faith, and even GOD due to this.
I agree with Soph and scg. Don\'t stoop to her level!!
That was not God\'s doing!! Stan works in strange and mysterious ways, also. Especially when it comes to \"getting under your skin\".
And, once again I say, you may do whatever you wish (leaving a group that needs you as much as you need them) but, you will never leave my prayers. That\'s between my God and me!!!!.
I\'m sorry you had to go through that, how extremely rude of her! Anywasy, I agree wldon\'t stop going to church. Dont let another person affect you so much that you change something about yourself. Good luck! Hope you don\'t have another incident like this anytime soon!
The best advice I can offer for dealing with people like this woman, is to pray for her. Pray that God opens up her heart and makes her the woman he wants her to be. I have dealt with a lot of rude people and the best solution when reacting to their ignorance, is no reaction directly, but pray for them. Allowing them to cause you to react negatively gives them a power over your emotions and your actions. Don\'t let them have the right to influence the way you think, feel, or behave. Ask God to give you strength and wisdom to get through the tougher times. As hard as it is you must ignore ignorance and realize that even people in important positions, like being a pastor\'s wife, need lots of prayer sometimes too.