I am back. Well sort of.
An update for you and for me.
In the last few weeks I:
Ended my marriage. It was the right thing to do. I could not continue to lie to her. She deserves better. And as I was never going to tell her, that was the only option.
Have slept with lots of women.
Have hardly seen OW. See the thing is, once I ended my marriage and moved out, the game changed. The guilt doubled for her. So much to my amazement, she has gone to ground.
Ah well, at least i don't have to lie to my wife anymore. And I can just focus on myself.
There'll be more to tell, I'm sure.
In the last few weeks I:
Ended my marriage. It was the right thing to do. I could not continue to lie to her. She deserves better. And as I was never going to tell her, that was the only option.
Have slept with lots of women.
Have hardly seen OW. See the thing is, once I ended my marriage and moved out, the game changed. The guilt doubled for her. So much to my amazement, she has gone to ground.
Ah well, at least i don't have to lie to my wife anymore. And I can just focus on myself.
There'll be more to tell, I'm sure.
Replies
Wow! Thinking about you! Don\'t be a stranger! We are here for you!
Wow! You have courage and strength, that\'s for sure. Welcome back, sort of!
Wow is right! It\'s always amazing to me to see people making big changes in their lives and having that courage.