Husband coming home for leave

For those of you who don't know my husband and i have been married for 13 yrs. .He is stationed over seas and the Military life hasn't been easy on our marriage, we had actually filled out divorce paperwork the week I found out we were expecting.. He is coming home on leave and I have set up a 4d ultrasound for us on the 4th my bday is the 5th I can't wait to find out the gender.. My husband doesn't want me to tell anyone in our family… But He didn't say ne thing about my support group so I plan to tell everyone I am horrible with secrets ne ways and its not like you know my family LOL… Please say prayers its def been a rough marriage.. Either way we are getting the best part of it in May and are thrilled...