Hurting

I have been doing my best to cope with the pain of the marriage ending and having to live with my stbx until I can move away the begining of next year. I told him I still love him but have accepted that we need to divorce which is what he wants. He's having an online affair with a woman who lives in Porto Rico. Their plan is for her to move here once I'm gone. She recently bought him a cell phone which I found out about by accident yesterday morning. I've also run into pictures of her he has downloaded by accident and have seen some of their chatting when he forgets to sign out of his email account. Last night I told him he had no idea what his flaunting this woman in my face is doing to me. This morning he sent me a very hurtful email saying how badly he was hurting and wanted me to hurt as bad as he is.  I answered him back honestly and without being nasty. I'm going to keep my distance from him for the rest of the weekend and try to get a little peace for myself.