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I swear I think I am suffering some depression or anxiety this whole ordeal with my daughter is tearing me apart eating me from inside out. Her lying is ridiculous I mean its just getting worse and worse a story and excuse for every dam thing she deffinetly is a mini me she know she would get in trouble so what she do fabricate lies and hide the truth. Its driving me insane and I know I am the one responsible and nothing I say is getting through to her for a little bit she would stop then go back to doing it until she is caught. My wife says we are two peas in a pod not reassuring, she has enough dealing with me she doesn't need two liars.I don't even know what to do I'm fighting and staying clean myself and only been what 2-3 months since I joined forum that hardly counts as someone who can start helping people with their lying let alone a child who is very young and can't understand very well why not to lie.
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First off as they say, when an Airline plane has a decompression problem, and all the usable air is being sucked out, the Airlines tell us to first put the oxygen mask on us first, before tending to ones child. That\'s what I think needs to be focused on here. Put the oxygen mask of recovery on you first, take a couple breaths and after a period of time, put the oxygen mask of recovery on your Daughter.
As far as depression and anxiety, you know my little story, I had to go to the Hospital to start getting that handled for myself. I\'m glad I did, for the panic attacks and anxiety have nearly gone away. And the anti-depressants are kicking in, I\'m not as down or so doom and gloom as I was say a couple weeks ago. Perhaps you should look into setting up a Doctors appointment and getting yourself evaluated for medication.
As far as your Wife is concerned, the quicker everyone shows signs of hope and promise I think she\'ll be fine. But consider yourself fortunate, your Wife has up to this point stuck it out with you, heck me with my dishonesty issues, my ex-fiance bailed, I\'m a little envious to say the least.
I\'m sure things will turn out fine, just right now you all have hit a couple speed bumps in the road. I\'ll be praying for you and your family, I\'m here if you need to talk!
Hey thanks a lot yeah I am hitting quit a few speed bumps, your a father so I am sure you can relate it is worse of course since I have a daughter and I am being over protective but I need to fix her before she ends up like me. I appreciate support and I am sure to ask ya for advice. Ya its a dam miracle man this was a complete fluke honestly only God could have had a hand with me getting another billionth chance from my wife.