how life has changed

have not been online here for ages and ages which i guess means that i no longer need the site so much and ive also been very busy.  i have been at college the past few years so ive been concentrating on that and moving on with life in general. have exams next month so im a bit stressed but i take strength in the fact that if i have survived all the horrible things life has already thrown at me then exams should be coped with by having a smile on my face. my dad has now moved in with myself and the kids. he is showing early stages of dementia so thought it best for him to move in so he can be settled before/if it gets worse. as i said ive been busy, studying monday to friday and working weekends so it keeps me out of trouble. my oldest daughter has moved out and has her own flat so its just my youngest daughter and my wee boy left at home. cant beleive that the wee one will be ten this year. we have no contact at all with his father. we receive no financial help from him either. so im both mum and dad to all three of my kids and im happy to do so as they are all happy and safe that way. my house has been redecorated and most of the debts that my ex left me with have now been cleared as well. only thing on my wish list that hasnt been completed yet is for me to lose weight. therefore, that is my next goal, to get fit and feel healthy. not looking to be a skinny minnie but just healthy.