How do I keep going
How do i keep going on when I know my husband is not making the best choices .
He will not go to a cancer center insists on going to a local Dr. that has no buisness treating cancer .
I have worried , stressed cried over this .I begged him to go to another Dr and oncologists . He will not listen .
I know I am the one everyone will blame for him not making better choices . I do not want to be left alone . Sooner than needed because of his poor choice in Drs.
Nor do I want to watch the love of my life throw money at this Dr. and not have good care . everytime I turn around there is anothe bill this dr. only cares about money not my husband .The bills make me so angry as we have insurance the ins. pays we pay copay Dr. still bills for more
I know how to fight . I do not understand the denial , the whatever attitude .
He will not go to a cancer center insists on going to a local Dr. that has no buisness treating cancer .
I have worried , stressed cried over this .I begged him to go to another Dr and oncologists . He will not listen .
I know I am the one everyone will blame for him not making better choices . I do not want to be left alone . Sooner than needed because of his poor choice in Drs.
Nor do I want to watch the love of my life throw money at this Dr. and not have good care . everytime I turn around there is anothe bill this dr. only cares about money not my husband .The bills make me so angry as we have insurance the ins. pays we pay copay Dr. still bills for more
I know how to fight . I do not understand the denial , the whatever attitude .
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Pam, is there anyone in the family that can talk to him. Even a close friend. Male. I don\'t know why they think we have no brains, just emotions. If there is then at least others will know how you tried to get him to get beter care. Is there another Dr. you can talk to to may be get more ideas? May be even someone at hospice, they usually have a lot of answeres, at least ours did. Just some thoughts. I know how worried you are. Hang in you are doing all he\'ll let you do. Hugs Jane