How Do Guys Do it?

How do you come to a place like this where people essentially find comfort by licking each others wounds, and you utter those words, I Love You? Despite the few post I've made about my condition, guys are sending me friend request as if they are hitting on someone.Seriously, I'm not even sure if my brother sheds tears for his sake or mine. For he has always had a fear of being alone. Sometimes I wonder how my Dad does it. He comes home from work, prepares dinner and looks after us. On some occasions he goes out to call my Aunt in the middle of the night if things are getting nasty. Is he stressed out? Is he trying his best to hide it from me? Am I becoming a nuisance to him.  These are questions I ask myself. But somehow people here believe that I should be able to reciprocate their romantic feelings? Are they really depressed?I'm not cold but at the moment I find it hard to sense when love is being issued out. I am simply following orders. When someone does something special for me I just say thank you. If they take great comfort in it then that's their business. I'm sorry if I offended anyone but that's just how I feel. I must admit there a few people who makes me feel tickled but it's only short lived.Seriously though guys, what is your secret? How do you do it?