hot and cold signals

so my girlfriend of a few months broke up with me over a silly misunderstanding via text.


she told me she loved me and we had a great time together the connection was unreal and passion was amazing.


we met at my work where she has been checking me out for a year plucking uo courage to finally ask me out.


so after a few months she broke up with me. it has only been over just a week but she is giving me mixed signals.


i go past her shop after work and she accidentally pops out for a smoke everytime she sees my car.


we have a chat and i text her now and then to see if shes ok but shell ask silly questions like why didnt i ask her when i passed her shop if she was ok when i didnt have time to stop.


she said she completely ignores and erases exes out of her life completely but she hasnt done that with meĀ 


she stops when she passes me at work for a chat and a smoke


but as shes aquarius and blows hot and cold im not sure what to make of it all.


she doesnt ignore me and the break up was over something silly


but because she is annoyingly stubborn. what do i do to see if she still interested.


ive said ill wait patiently and let time take its course. but i know with aquarians too much time pushes them away for good


please help me figure out this pickle

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Jenniferswe
Jenniferswe

Maybe she's afraid of commitment. It could be she's hasn't been in a serious relationship and doesn't know what to do. Hugs.
dee86
dee86

but she said she was in a 4 year relationship when she was 16 and her partner cheated and was lying obsessed and sometimes was abusive.
i understand of her fear but theres a grey cloud if she even is still interested.
im just confused.
there is an age gap shes 22 and im 30 but she said that wasnt a problem for her
would you recommend any advice if its able to get her back? im just over thinking all sorts of scenarios