"Hostile detached couples" last about 16 years//dinner w/j pasta buffet//joblawsuit hostile workenvi
"... couples that come in at dinner and don't talk to each other the entire time. We call them hostile detached couples. They can last a long time."
"In these cases, the couples generally last about 16 years after the wedding. Quite often by the time they end up divorcing they have teenage children.
Especially when they have teenagers, they wind up thinking things like, "Boy when I was that age I had a lot of hope, and now I've wound up in this sort of empty marriage."
So they wind up identifying with their adolescent child and exiting the relationship. Oftentimes there's also an affair. And that ends the relationship."
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" ... he was concerned she would be dealing with men who have "no boundaries," according to the declaration.
McKinley's suit accuses the Salvation Army of sexual discrimination, (calling her a "hussy" and a "jezebel" because she is attractive. the woman is 48 years old, how "attractive" could she be?) retaliation because McKinley filed a complaint and creating a hostile work environment. It also sounds like bullying in the workplace. He made lewd comments with and without other men around and tried to physically trip her when she was walking, with his own feet, (there was one from a court house where the "lawyer" literally PULLED DOWN the pants and sexually abused one of the young girls working there, right on the street in front of the court house and the "sheriff's" manning the front of the court house just stood there. did they just stand there because they are retards, or did they just stand there because its the street? or did they just stand there because the man doing it is a lawyer and works at the courthouse. i've never comprehended what happened there? a place is only as strong as its weakest link...so were those particular sheriffs weak links. doesn't change what happened. hell, if it was the lawyer's own child and he did that, its abuse - especially in public. he was charged with sexual assault, but why didn't they stop him? a 19 or 20 year old woman - it sounds like rape to me. see the legal definition of rape).
... and urged other men to push her and trip her. That's assault and battery. Urged the dumber men to rape her. omg! who the hell acts like that. bet the man is a criminal who hasn't gone to jail yet, if you commit crime you are a criminal, the jail part doesn't matter. he says he's a "family man." really? you don't act like a family man. you have a grown daughter, do you abuse your daughter physically? you probably do. and your wife? and your sisters? is being a "family man" your cover for being a sexual predator and criminal in general? if you act like that in the work place you must be a zillion times worse outside of the work place.
(look up people that abuse their own kids and why. its because of the close proximity and that the children are basically cornered in the same house as the perpetrator, its not just living with the enemy its more like a prisoner of war....even worse "society" will bring the victim back to the place and person of abuse over and over again. so sad and truly evil. and then society will try to convince the victim to "love the person abusing them" which then causes schizophrenia. you should never love anyone or anything that abuses you. you should kill whoever abuses you. look at it military style. and whoever is trying to convince the victim to "love" the person or thing abusing them and stay abused, the person encouraging this should also be killed. they are getting a vicarious thrill out of it, that is why they are telling the victim this. its another form of abusing/bullying).
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went to a great pasta buffet at an italian place with j. its very small and didn't expect much and ends up being FABULOUS food. love when that happens. the buffet has chicken piccata, chicken marsala, chicken caccitiorre, mussels, shrimp scampi, sausage and peppers, baked ziti, rotini something....don't remember all of it and comes with a small salad buffet, but all the right stuff. you don't need more.
finished reading, "i'm 15 and i don't want to die" also fabulous. camped out reading it outdoors with a wool blanket to keep warm. another one of my favorite things to do when its on a deck near the ocean. up until 5 a.m. lol. its the diary of a teenager who survived the seige of budapest during WWII. it won the french prix of something in 1948.
"In these cases, the couples generally last about 16 years after the wedding. Quite often by the time they end up divorcing they have teenage children.
Especially when they have teenagers, they wind up thinking things like, "Boy when I was that age I had a lot of hope, and now I've wound up in this sort of empty marriage."
So they wind up identifying with their adolescent child and exiting the relationship. Oftentimes there's also an affair. And that ends the relationship."
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" ... he was concerned she would be dealing with men who have "no boundaries," according to the declaration.
McKinley's suit accuses the Salvation Army of sexual discrimination, (calling her a "hussy" and a "jezebel" because she is attractive. the woman is 48 years old, how "attractive" could she be?) retaliation because McKinley filed a complaint and creating a hostile work environment. It also sounds like bullying in the workplace. He made lewd comments with and without other men around and tried to physically trip her when she was walking, with his own feet, (there was one from a court house where the "lawyer" literally PULLED DOWN the pants and sexually abused one of the young girls working there, right on the street in front of the court house and the "sheriff's" manning the front of the court house just stood there. did they just stand there because they are retards, or did they just stand there because its the street? or did they just stand there because the man doing it is a lawyer and works at the courthouse. i've never comprehended what happened there? a place is only as strong as its weakest link...so were those particular sheriffs weak links. doesn't change what happened. hell, if it was the lawyer's own child and he did that, its abuse - especially in public. he was charged with sexual assault, but why didn't they stop him? a 19 or 20 year old woman - it sounds like rape to me. see the legal definition of rape).
... and urged other men to push her and trip her. That's assault and battery. Urged the dumber men to rape her. omg! who the hell acts like that. bet the man is a criminal who hasn't gone to jail yet, if you commit crime you are a criminal, the jail part doesn't matter. he says he's a "family man." really? you don't act like a family man. you have a grown daughter, do you abuse your daughter physically? you probably do. and your wife? and your sisters? is being a "family man" your cover for being a sexual predator and criminal in general? if you act like that in the work place you must be a zillion times worse outside of the work place.
(look up people that abuse their own kids and why. its because of the close proximity and that the children are basically cornered in the same house as the perpetrator, its not just living with the enemy its more like a prisoner of war....even worse "society" will bring the victim back to the place and person of abuse over and over again. so sad and truly evil. and then society will try to convince the victim to "love the person abusing them" which then causes schizophrenia. you should never love anyone or anything that abuses you. you should kill whoever abuses you. look at it military style. and whoever is trying to convince the victim to "love" the person or thing abusing them and stay abused, the person encouraging this should also be killed. they are getting a vicarious thrill out of it, that is why they are telling the victim this. its another form of abusing/bullying).
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went to a great pasta buffet at an italian place with j. its very small and didn't expect much and ends up being FABULOUS food. love when that happens. the buffet has chicken piccata, chicken marsala, chicken caccitiorre, mussels, shrimp scampi, sausage and peppers, baked ziti, rotini something....don't remember all of it and comes with a small salad buffet, but all the right stuff. you don't need more.
finished reading, "i'm 15 and i don't want to die" also fabulous. camped out reading it outdoors with a wool blanket to keep warm. another one of my favorite things to do when its on a deck near the ocean. up until 5 a.m. lol. its the diary of a teenager who survived the seige of budapest during WWII. it won the french prix of something in 1948.
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Contempt, a virulent mix of anger and disgust, is far more toxic than simple frustration or negativity.
It involves seeing your partner as beneath you, rather than as an equal.
Feeling \"contempt\" for another, is the kiss of death of a relationship.
she says NONE of the women actually married this guy. this \"lawyer\" forged the women\'s signature on a marriage license and then held them captive so they couldn\'t leave, plus allll the fuck ups if they tried to leave because of the \"marriage\" that never really occurred. one woman ran in front of a truck when she got away from him and then he went after \"their children\" for the next ten years until all of them were dead. the whole thing is disgusting. what a total weirdo. never trust a suit.