Hope and faith

Should we keep our faith and hope that things will change? Should we pray for a different outcome? When do we stop believing that things will change? That we should not hold out any hope? Some days are a bottomless pit of despair and some other days I'm full of faith and hope that things will change, that at the end things will work themselves out.  When do we stop fooling ourselves?
*Sigh* just thinking out loud - journaling always helps me.

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yougospam
yougospam

Hi friend, I feel the same way. I need an intervention from my ex. I\'ve turned my life over to God and have been told many times to \"let it be\" If my ex and I are meant to be together we will be. Do I wait? Do I continue hoping he\'ll come around? Do I let him go and give up this fantasy I live in? Like you, the only contact I get from him is if I make contact. I snuck a peak at his FB page last night and he had updated his profile pic, it is one of the first ones we ever took together with ME cut out of it. SO needless to say he literally has cut me out of his life, why don\'t I get it? I wanted to so bad say, hey, what happened to your better 1/2 in that pic, but since we\'re not friends on FB I can\'t comment and I really don\'t need to. Sorry for my ramblings on your page. It seems that you and I have a lot in common regarding our exes. I made it through chapter 6 in that book we\'re reading, except for the letter so I think that is what caused my melt down last night. But honestly it brought back so many painful memories, I have to wonder why I\'m even holding onto that man.
Hugs.
playerapr
playerapr

I\'ve pray so many times. I\'ve prayed to forget and find peace and then I prayed for things to change and have a happy ending. Everybody tells me the same thing - let it go - if it meant to be he\'ll come around.
I really have to laugh at your FB stalking - I don\'t stalk anymore cause it hurts me to look - which is why I unfriended him in the first place. Every time he post a photo a bunch of females would be complimenting him and flirting and I couldn\'t stand to see it.
Girl just like you - I wonder why I want him cause he don\'t offer me half of what I want from a relationship.
isn\'t it ironic!!!!!
Stay strong.