Hmmm....

So we opened the paperwork when he got home. Doesn't seem to be any surprises which I'm grateful for!! She doesn't want anything and seems to just want to get it over with. The only problem is that the paperwork should have been in TODAY!! Not sure why she just happen to send it late. With everything that's happened I am so paranoid about EVERYTHING to do with him now. It doesn't help that I don't trust her either. This is so stupid, there is no reason for him to be signing these stupid papers. Their marriage wasn't legal. They wouldn't have even been considered common law according to the state of Colorado. Of course since she sent them late I have all these thoughts in my head like she's going to try and "get him back" and do whatever she can to "postpone" this, so she can talk to him more and try and get him back. Supposedly she's "so happy and getting married". So what the hell?! She knows that he's been "remarried" don't you think that if there was an issue he would have contacted her?!!!  I'm mean come on. I'm thinking I might try and contact a divorce lawyer and ask them all my questions.  As for my thoughts of him talking to her or giving her his number I don't think he has. When he called her last night he made sure he *67'd his number so it wouldn't come up. So that was a nice thing to see. All though what he's done during the day I don't know.  I was thinking about all this last night, and I think all I want is for him to tell me I don't have anything to worry about and that he'd never go back to her, etc. etc. I think I know in my heart of hearts that he wouldn't go back to her, but it would be nice to hear. Especially after all the crap with the other ex.  

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Glad to hear that there were not surprises. Was there any way to get the paperwork there today (without meeting her). I agree it is stupid for the paper work but if it add a sense of legal security it probably is worth it.

I think if he blocked his number when he called her he probably has done it before. Most people do not remember how to block numbers unless they have done it before. I think now you give him a little trust room (I did not say how much) and see how it goes. I think it possible he may never say it because he may think that you would think that he is just saying it to make you happy. Give it a little time maybe things are slowly coming around. Play it by ear but be safe.