Hey it's been 2 days NO TEARS!!!!

So i'm just sitting at my desk comparing my bills to my checkbook never a happy time under normal circumstances but now that 75% of the income is gone thanks to the 42 yr old man child I thpught great this is going to be really ugly. It wasn't to bad thank God he ran out before tax time right. Anyway  I just realized that I haven't cried in 2 days. I don't even know how it happened crying, and crying , and crying has been like breathing or drinking water it's just something I do all day everyday. Then all of a sudden no tears, why??? I'm still sad i'm still scared sometimes i'm still lonely so why no tears????

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trisha9054
trisha9054

Sometimes you cry so much that all the tears are gone. You are so tired of crying you just can\'t do it anymore. You were at the bottom of the roller coaster of divorce and now you are on the way to the top of the roller coaster.

There might still be a few weepy days in your life. That damn roller coaster can\'t stay at the top forever but they won\'t last long. You are now in the healing stage of this mess you find yourself in. With more time all the tears about this will be gone forever.
CowgirlKathi
CowgirlKathi

I finally quit crying after I had literally DEHYDRATED myself two days in a row! Trisha is right -- you DO reach the point where you just can\'t cry anymore; you have RELEASED all the tears you held back during the darkest days of your married life. That was certainly what I had done! So be HAPPY that you\'re not melting every day. You will most certainly still have sad times, but they won\'t be as severe and they won\'t last as long. You are on the way up! Keep going!