her friends drive by, attorney dismissed, job well done
Two things going on, well more than two things. The x keeps contacting my attorney, she is not allowed to contact me, unless its about our son. So my attorney told me to dismiss him ,so that she stops racking up my bill and when I need him for the child support or any other, I just hire him again for that time. So....If she cant talk to me, and she cant talk to my attorney, the only person would be the judge, and she will just piss him off. She is screaming in a field, with no one listening! so I see how that goes.
I came home today to my neibour coming out to tell me a black SUV was in front of my house for 20min, someone on the phone in the car. Its the girl friend that help take stuff out of the house, she is no good that one. So , my X is getting her friends to do dirty work. Tomorrow I am getting an alarm sign and a camera sign to go up by the front wall, as a little phyc for her friends. I may have to get the real things..soon. On the most part, (you guys were right) the crying is less, the pain is still there but I can atleast function somewhat better. Thanks all for your support!
I came home today to my neibour coming out to tell me a black SUV was in front of my house for 20min, someone on the phone in the car. Its the girl friend that help take stuff out of the house, she is no good that one. So , my X is getting her friends to do dirty work. Tomorrow I am getting an alarm sign and a camera sign to go up by the front wall, as a little phyc for her friends. I may have to get the real things..soon. On the most part, (you guys were right) the crying is less, the pain is still there but I can atleast function somewhat better. Thanks all for your support!
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Glad it is getting better, and it will continue to do so!
This sort of stalking (by the friend) could be considered harrassment. If it persists, I think I would contact the police and see what they can do for you. Hang in there. It does get better, but you will have to set some really concrete boundaries to maintain your privacy and your sanity!
I agree with Kathi - you could probably nip this in the bud early if you ask the police to just do an occasional driveby and tell them why. If they stop to talk to her during their regular patrols, it just might be enough to chase her off. And the pain will really begin to fade once you get beyond the holidays. Hang in there!
Good for you! Your well on your way my friend.