Hello, again.

I know it has been a while since my last entry. I have been dealing with depression and lack of interest in all things intimate.  
If you haven't figured it out from reading my profile, I am Bi. I came out to my wife last year around this time. She was initially supportive, then had several bouts of inadequacy, but has come back around to supportive.  We enjoyed an extended period of heightened sexual activity, but lately I want nothing to do with sex.
She regularly asks me what "mood" I'm in.  I believe in an attempt to gauge where I am emotionally on my swings between wanting a woman or a man.  I dislike these queries, I feel pressured to answer that I want her, not him.  I don't think she is  intentionally making me feel this way.  She has no qualm in donning a "member" for me if I so desire.
I have no desire, either way.