Heartbroken

My wife of 6+ years cheated on me. I know our marriage for the past 4 years was not great... but this has devastated me in ways I could have never imagined. I am so distraught by the thought of the love of my life with another man. I try to get my mind off of things but I can't seem to... Knowing that my wife has moved on so quickly and has tossed me to the curb just hurts me so bad.  The only thing that keeps me together at this point are our 2 young children. People keep telling me time will heal things... but at the moment I am so depressed I don't know how to cope. Please tell me things will stop hurting soon...