Healing and rebuilding myself
Ater 20 years of marriage, my ex-husband moved his (much younger) girlfriend in before my stuff was moved out. I have great days and bad days. I am very unsure of myself which is not me. I am usually very confident. I am struggling with this.
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Well I hope by now, you are all moved out! Had my X done that, he would have been dead -- and I would be serving 99 years to life!
You will get through this. Know that we have all been exactly where you are right now. Time. Space. Faith. And a good therapist can help you get through the muck and the mire and into a brighter, happier and emotionally healhier future!
Yes Faith is what gets me through. Unfortunately I have spent my money on my children\'s therapy. I hope to do something group or therapy wise in the fall. This summer is packed with traveling and activities with my sons.
See if you can find a Divorce Care group out of one of your local churches. One should be starting back up in the fall. It does help to be around people who are going thru the same things you are dealing with.
I ended up going thru the sessions four times. The first time and then the others to get more into it. You can go thru their sessions as many times as you feel the need. They helped me a lot. I even went back this last time because I am headed back to court again.
With Divorce Care, a different online divorce site and therapy I made it okay.
I actually looked up the divorce care group and there is one in my area. I will look into it when I get back from travel next week.