He Tried to BURST my DISNEY BUBBLE........
OK notice I said TRIED!!!!!!! Those of you following my Disney Trip updates know i'm working really really hard to save any extra money that comes in so Austin and I can take our Disney trip around Jan or Feb of next year. Everytime we put money in the jar a feeling of pride comes over both of us. We have already learned to live without so much due to stbx so in order to save for this trip we really have to buckle down. Anyway Austin was soooo excited about the $100.00 that we put in yesterday when you know who called he blabbed. I understand he is excited for our accomplishment and wanted to share it with his dad. When Austin handed me the phone I was not even aware it was him on the other end. Austin simply said here mom it's for you. I said " Hi this is T " in my most cheerful voice and what came out of the phone next I couldn't believe.
" WHO THE F@%# DID I THINK I WAS " and " HOW DARE YOU SAY IN COURT HOW BROKE YOU ARE WHILE YOUR SAVING FOR A TRIP TO DISNEY " Then he threw a couple of " WELL WHO'S DRIVING I KNOW YOU WON'T HAVE THE MONEY TO FLY " and " ARE YOU PAYING FOR A RENTAL CAR ?" " YOU CAN'T DRIVE ALL THAT WAY YOURSELF FOR 8 HOURS YOU WON'T MAKE IT WHAT IF SOMETHING HAPPENS WHO WILL BE THERE TO HELP YOU?" Funny how NOW HE IS CONCERNED FOR MY WELL BEING?????? These past 7 months he hasn't given a RAT'S ASS about my safety or well being. Well I simply said " None of this is any of your concern right now and if I want to take Austin to Disney I WILL SO SUCK IT "....... He kept trying to throw out anything he could to discourage me in the end after I let him think I was listening I said " You done now? " " YES!!!! Good" glad to hear it " Oh one more thing " YA WHAT "
"ZIP A DEE DO DAH ZIP A DEE DAY MY OH MY WHAT A WONDERFUL DAY PLENTY OF SUNSHINE HEADIN MY WAY ZIP A DEE DO DAH ZIP A DEE DAY "!!!!!!!
WE ARE GOING AND THERE IS NOTHING HE CAN DO TO STOP US AND THAT IS DRIVING HIM INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
" WHO THE F@%# DID I THINK I WAS " and " HOW DARE YOU SAY IN COURT HOW BROKE YOU ARE WHILE YOUR SAVING FOR A TRIP TO DISNEY " Then he threw a couple of " WELL WHO'S DRIVING I KNOW YOU WON'T HAVE THE MONEY TO FLY " and " ARE YOU PAYING FOR A RENTAL CAR ?" " YOU CAN'T DRIVE ALL THAT WAY YOURSELF FOR 8 HOURS YOU WON'T MAKE IT WHAT IF SOMETHING HAPPENS WHO WILL BE THERE TO HELP YOU?" Funny how NOW HE IS CONCERNED FOR MY WELL BEING?????? These past 7 months he hasn't given a RAT'S ASS about my safety or well being. Well I simply said " None of this is any of your concern right now and if I want to take Austin to Disney I WILL SO SUCK IT "....... He kept trying to throw out anything he could to discourage me in the end after I let him think I was listening I said " You done now? " " YES!!!! Good" glad to hear it " Oh one more thing " YA WHAT "
"ZIP A DEE DO DAH ZIP A DEE DAY MY OH MY WHAT A WONDERFUL DAY PLENTY OF SUNSHINE HEADIN MY WAY ZIP A DEE DO DAH ZIP A DEE DAY "!!!!!!!
WE ARE GOING AND THERE IS NOTHING HE CAN DO TO STOP US AND THAT IS DRIVING HIM INSANE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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What\'s the problem with an 8 hour drive? You can drive 8 hours. That\'s nothing. He is just thinking of the money he has had to pay and wishing he didn\'t have to pay you.
Good for you for standing up for yourself. Now is a great time to do no contact if you aren\'t already doing no contact.
OMG! I am laughing so hard--did you really sign that song into the phone!!??? If you did, GOOD FOR YOU!!! So proud that you stood up to him.
I LOVE IT !!!!!!!!!!!!
GREAT JOURNAL ENTRY!!! I\'m so proud of you... It\'s awesome stuff. Wicked pissa...
Before I read to the end, I was going to say \"Why didn\'t you just hang up the phone?\" but I kept on.
You GO girl! Keep Zippity Do Dah as your personal theme song! I like it! I like it!
Just love it, beautiful amazingly strong woman. Shows you have badly he wants you to roll over and collapse without him. He is royally pissed that you dared to survive without him. You go to Disney World and while you are there send him a card telling him how happy you are without him there.
Thanks everyone ALL OF YOU GIVE ME STRENGTH. WE ALL ROCK WE ARE ALL SO AWESOME!!!!! Thanks Knuckle that is a FANTASTIC IDEA and the first day were at disney i\'m going to pick up a post card and mail it to him. Maybe I will take a picture and send it to him via cell phone with a message that\'s says \" LOOK WHERE WE ARE AND WE DID IT WITHOUT YOU \"
giggles, hehehehe great just do it.