He\'s Gone....
Just like that he packed up and left and headed back to our hometown. I have no way of contacting him...I am left to deal with all the financial stuff myself. He never once asked me to come back so I guess he was glad when I left...I wouldn't have went back but it guess it hurts to know I never really mattered. He never even said good-bye to his kids..nothing! He called me at work and said he was moving...everything is in his name..he never disconnected anything..nothing..left it all in my hands...I have to called the mortgage company and figure out what to do...I am a wreck. I guess I asked for this when I decided to leave but I was hoping we could have worked out these finances together.
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Laurel, don\'t worry. The fact that everything up to now is in HIS name is a good thing. All you have to do is call the utilities and the phone and the internet and the cable and tell them he left and that you need to put everything in YOUR name. You can also contact an atty through your legal services there and he/she can help you get all of his indebtedness off of your record. It sounds insurmountable, but it really isn\'t. One step at a time. I had to do this too. I love you and hope that you can make the changes you need to to keep moving forward. Call me if you need to. I\'ll PM my phone number to you. If you need me to walk you through it, by all means, I\'ll do that.
Love, Launie xoxoxoxo
You are shaky and hurt right now, and afraid. It is all new and scary now. But just try to think of it as a new start and a clean page. It is a new chapter. You take your time. Start writing downs stuff you need to take care of on a list. You will need reminders as a lot will change. It will be worth it in a while. You can do this! Love,Peggy
What she said! Lists work really well. I still have to make lists! Love you! xo