He keeps hangin on
So our last txting convo was tues i think. Or wed??
Anyway that turned sour and i ignored his txting n calls the rest of the day. 2 days later he txts good morning. I delete.
He just txts me now asking if there's school tmr. How the hell should i know?? He cld check the towns website right?? Hes trying to be all light and airy. Where is his conscience????
I was at peace all weekend. Then WHAMMO! He txts me! Im much better when he doesn't.
Sigh...
Anyway that turned sour and i ignored his txting n calls the rest of the day. 2 days later he txts good morning. I delete.
He just txts me now asking if there's school tmr. How the hell should i know?? He cld check the towns website right?? Hes trying to be all light and airy. Where is his conscience????
I was at peace all weekend. Then WHAMMO! He txts me! Im much better when he doesn't.
Sigh...
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Boy I sure know what you mean- sometimes it\'s better not to hear anything at all! I didn\'t hear from mine all yesterday...was feeling pretty relieved about it. But sure enough first thing this morning he\'s at it again!
It\'s intrusive! He knows we dont have plans to leave our families. He knows how i suffered w the guilt. He knows i dont believe MM should have gf\'s!!! Nothing\'s changed! Hes contacting me for his own selfish reasons and wants! That makes me mad!
We tried the \"friends thing\". That shit doesn\'t work. Cold turkey is the only way! You have to let it wither and die. That\'s it. The only way.
... That little rant made me feel better :)
Hugs to ya theiris!!
hey hun...keep strong, you got this girl!!!
if you really dont want him in your life, then dont!!
only you can make that decision..
they can be very selfish indeed, when it comes to their ego\'s
hang tough , heard
Thanks heard. I needed that. :)
Hang in there! He wants you to want him. I know you have made up your mind on this so don\'t cave in.
Notmyself...remember what I told you last week? My Oscar winning lines to keep my OW under the quicksand?. Try to hang in there. It takes two to tango; so far there is only one man in the dance floor. Good luck.
Thank you red and ironic!! You guys rock!!
Ironic - didnt you say your OW continued to contact you for quite some time?? I wish i could block his number. I dont even want to see it pop up on my phone!! Grrrrr
I long since deleted him as a contact so i no longer have to see his name!! But still. It\'s frustrating.
Can\'t you block him?
I asked about that. I think you either have to pay to block a number and/or it shows up on the bill. Bills r in H name. :(
He txted this morning too: hope all is well.
Deleted!!!
Yes she did, but with a lover if you tell them short and firm....\" I am sorry but I love my H/W and I don\'t plan to leave\", then the word LOVE is the most powerful weapon you have.
Thanks ironic. Point well taken. :)
It will show up on the bill so be careful if you call and block him..
I\'ll throw you the other end of the rope, we can do this together...this is the end of my 4th day with NC.... hang on baby!!!
Good for you! You\'re doing great heard!!!