HE agreed to talk....

ok, i have called him twice over the past couple weeks. usually after a bad dream, and today i sent him a text message saying we needed to talk, that we cant just run away from this and pretend it isnt happening, and that we can do it the easy way, or the hard way. first he asked what is there to talk about? that he is sorry that he has done this to me and to us, and he dont know what else to do for this, and that there is nothing to do. He gave me the lines of how he cant fight anymore, that there isnt another option, cause i called his command and now he has nothing, and he thanked me for his having nothing, i dont know what he meant by that. his conversations are contradicting, it seems he might have a brief moment where he would open up to me and actually  talk... then its back to being all about him. im scared. i dont know if i have made a mistake. part of me still wants him, still wants a family.  i just want at least for him to try... if it dont work, then it dont work, but at least i wont feel abandoned, i will have something i can live with, and move on from...  and i think the dreams would stop then. and the feeling like i am hanging off a cliff from a thin unsecure rope. i hope this works. im scared, and exited. of course there is that part of me that hopes he will see me and have feelings for me and the baby, and be willing to try to work things out. its so simple really, he see's his navy in the way.and feels that i have done something horrible to him by getting them involved, but i really had no options, i didnt know what to do. they were helpful when i lost our first baby, so i called them. all he has to do is say, she is having my baby, we want to go to counseling... we want to at least try to be civil. they would support him. i really need opinions... am i being stupid? why do i feel better that he agreed to talk to me? maybe cause i feel validated a little. like i was worth sending the message to. i dont know.  ultimately this is about the baby. i want to know what his plans are, if he wants anything to do with the baby or not, if he would sign over FULL custody to me. if he wants anything to do with it, cause i am going to have to create a will, in case something happens to me. i would let him sign over his rights off the bat, but i need the money while i am in school. any opinions? advice? anything please... thank you.... you all are so wonderful.