Having the support and validation I needed
It's been a roller coaster ride for the past 3 years --there were good times and there were bad. I found myself in pseudo relationship and it has finally taken it's toll on me. I am ready to move on and find a relationship that I deserve.
It's finally admitting and accepting the fact that no matter how much you love someone, it takes courage to commit and be ready to have a new life with a partner. The thing is we can't change someone, we cannot rescue them from their own problems and that sometimes, we need to step back and just realize that our needs come first.
I want a relationship with someone who wants me. I want it with someone who wants to commit to me and emotionally available to be there for me as I will be there for him.
I know that I don't have to settle and this is just an empowering truth that can finally set me free..and can help me to let go.
It's finally admitting and accepting the fact that no matter how much you love someone, it takes courage to commit and be ready to have a new life with a partner. The thing is we can't change someone, we cannot rescue them from their own problems and that sometimes, we need to step back and just realize that our needs come first.
I want a relationship with someone who wants me. I want it with someone who wants to commit to me and emotionally available to be there for me as I will be there for him.
I know that I don't have to settle and this is just an empowering truth that can finally set me free..and can help me to let go.
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It is such a mystery how our emotions evolve from one to another --from pain, to resentment, to anger, to apathy... that\'s what I feel towards tobby right now..and I am a bit annoyed that I have to put up a face to accommodate my obligations and keep a happy face for his friends and family. I know that I should have said goodbye a long time ago..I feel that I am now living a lie and I can\'t wait to get rid of him and move on with my life.. love has a way of making us hold on..but the pains are incredibly more powerful to make us let go.