hard to be here

Sometimes I feel it is so hard to be on this site. 
As I am almost 22 months out into my grief.  When I read others new posts, it brings back the period I tread through. 
Also we are in the site where there are many wounded souls.  We are all wounded and sometimes, my comment has to be extremely tackful in addition to be gentle.
I do not know the fruit of me being in here.  I am contemplating.