happy days

my mum and i are both feeling a lot happyer now i hope it lasts for both of us we went out today and picked a new bedroom furniture. and my hubby will decorte it nd ly a new crpet for her.my brother has  controling wife and my mum only sees him twice a year and he lives 15 minutes away,she has been very upset she last sw her gran kids 7 month ago my brother was suppost to visit but she came with the kids instead mum asked to take some photos of them. your not taking picturs of my girls she said. that was the last time she saw any of them.i dont under stnd it.but my sister inlaw is the same with her own mother.cnt wight till her kids are adults and tret them tht way.my mum said its help by seeing me cope with what happend but mums has 16 yers of my bro in and out of her life.when my dad was dieing he came to visit on saturdys.my dad said to my you have to be dieing to get  visit.sad but i think shes at turning point now but its taken years.