Happy 15th Anniversary ... I've got you on my mind ...

"Every widow wakes one morning, perhaps after years of pure and unwavering grieving, to realize she slept a good night's sleep, and will be able to eat breakfast, and doesn't hear her husband's ghost all the time, but only some of the time. Her grief is replaced with a useful sadness. Every parent who loses a child finds a way to laugh again. The timbre begins to fade. The edge dulls. The hurt lessens. Every love is carved from loss. Mine was. Yours is. Your great-great-great-grandchildren's will be. But we learn to live in that love." — Jonathan Safran Foer

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Catherine17
Catherine17

Thinking of you today, Tracy....
deleted_user
deleted_user

My great-great-great-grandchildren.... Thank you for your post. This grief process has been one of the most humanizing experiences of my life. My first thought was \"Oh, my God! This is what people have to experience during life losses?!\" Everyone goes through such difficulty. We can\'t escape it, but we can support each other and grow through the process. Thank you for your input here and for your growing and caring for other people. You are a blessing! Darleen
deleted_user
deleted_user

In my thoguhts Tracy.

The quote is beutiful and bittersweet. also SO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!

HUGS and hopes that your 15th comes with some sweetness to overshadow the bitter. Diane
deleted_user
deleted_user

I have heard \'the deeper the love, the bigger the grief\" You have shared a beautiful quote with us. Thank you, Wanda
lovelos
lovelos

My thoughts are with you today........this quote is so sad but so true,
Hugs Lu Ann
deleted_user
deleted_user

Great quote Tracy. Thanks for posting it, hope you\'re doing okay today.
Hugs, Ann
deleted_user
deleted_user

That quote was so beautifully said...thanks for posting this.

I hope you have some happy memories to help you through on your 15th....hugs
lovedaisies
lovedaisies

Tracy, that is a beautifully accurate quote-----useful sadness-----I really understand that statement.
Thinking of you and looking forward to meeting you in person. I truly appreciate your sharing helpful information along this grief road we travel as we learn and grow.
Sal
inmemoryofhattie
inmemoryofhattie

touchingly exquisitely painful beautiful.....
lovie4ever
lovie4ever

That was a very poignant quote and so true, thanks for sharing. Bless you Tracey for all the help you give to all of us .
Hugs,
Christine