Handling more shit!

It was a long weekend, and my son's daughter was visiting him. On Saturday morning my son told me that he and little Abby were invited to a BBQ, and they would be gone the whole day. Nothing new for me. Only, (what I discovered later), the BBQ was at my sister's house, and I was not told about it, because I am not welcome there!!

I have been praying since for God to come fetch me also!! I have just had more than enough rejection and shit in my life!!!!!!

Replies

MomofJosh
MomofJosh

Andelene, that is so hurtful and I am so sorry that you are hurt! I understand your feelings of rejection and prayer to God. Please know that you are loved by this little speck here (me!) in Colorado in the good ol\' USA and by many of the moms here. I don\'t know why God puts us through so much at times. It just seems so unfair but like a poster I read while we were camping said \"God loves you, no matter what, and there is nothing you can do about it!\" I am wishing I could hold you tight during this difficult time!
Sending love and prayers, Leda
saltwatercowgirl
saltwatercowgirl

((((hugs)))) Vicki
Missinglisa
Missinglisa

Oh my dear. That is so hurtful. I wish I could be there to give you a huge hug.
Love and tight hug, Marlene
Livingjuicy
Livingjuicy

This IS so very hurtful and small of everyone involved to be acting in this way. I\'m SO sorry my friend and feel it all as you are and know that you are a very special woman who is trying to do her best.

This is not about YOU and is about your family and it feels as if they need a good swift kick on their backsides.

Hand in hand and Heart to heart,
XO Joanie
deleted_user
deleted_user

Oh dearest SOMH, People can be so hurtful and for that I am so sorry. I know that our journey is so painful. Please know that I truly care, we all do. I do wish I could give you oodles of hugs. I am trying to get my support group to go national, so maybe sooner than later we shall be able to talk via satellite. Sending you loving hugs, Debbie
CFMOM2
CFMOM2

Your sister and son are so disrespectful. They should be called on the carpet and given a talking too. I know you do not have the strength to engage them for their terrible behavior. Maybe a light will go off in their heads!!!!! Hugs for you. Kathy
NoraMc
NoraMc

do we share family??? sounds like mine.... I am so sorry... and certainly know how you feel.... that was downright nasty and hurtful..... love and hugs!!