Guilt feeling after the statments from others
Well could not sleep, with the idea that all have bought into that I am abusive, i wanted her dead, i was happy about everything that happened to her.....so I pulled up the emails to my brother in law and printed them, I will be giving these to the attorney and the court advisor, the show the whole ordeal day by day sometime 4 times a day, my intent, my feelings and my concerns...its very brutally honest to my brother in law. And it shows just me handeling all and toward the end where things were turned on me by her. its still shows the concern for her and what is happening. I DID EVERYTHING AND ANY THING I COULD DO FOR THE SAKE OF HER WELL BEING its soo painful
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I\'m so sorry you are having to deal with these attacks. Divorce brings out the nasty side of everyone. And \"friends\" can chose to betray as well as support. I was lucky - those same kinds of \"friends\" weeded themselves out years ago when the X became disabled, so that all I had left when the divorce came were the BEST ones. Surround yourself with the remaining best ones - Not just the ones who will side with you, but the ones who won\'t take sides as well - they\'ll keep you more grounded. Let them pull you away from these thoughts and distract you, and you\'ll be able to get through this. This too shall pass!