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So, last night I got into my first fight with my fiance.
I have a guy friend that is pretty flirty with me. Every now and then I flirt back. I don't mean any harm, and I don't want to be with this other guy. I've just always been a flirt. I even sometimes flirt with people I'm not attracted to. Well, my fiance decided last night while playing a game on my phone that he would check my FB message because the other guy had sent me a message. This pissed off my fiance. Which I get that part. I would be upset as well. But I'm not gonna go through someone else's shit either. We were both in the wrong and I get that part. Now, I just can't seem to let it go. I put a pin on my phone which I think hurt his feelings, but I just can't handle people going through my phone. I will show you messages and texts if you really want to. Just ask.
I also understand that he gets really insecure, and so do I. I just wish there were someway to convince him that I am happy with him, and I don't intend on leaving him. I meant when I said I would marry him.
Ugh, I guess relationships take a bunch of work.
I have a guy friend that is pretty flirty with me. Every now and then I flirt back. I don't mean any harm, and I don't want to be with this other guy. I've just always been a flirt. I even sometimes flirt with people I'm not attracted to. Well, my fiance decided last night while playing a game on my phone that he would check my FB message because the other guy had sent me a message. This pissed off my fiance. Which I get that part. I would be upset as well. But I'm not gonna go through someone else's shit either. We were both in the wrong and I get that part. Now, I just can't seem to let it go. I put a pin on my phone which I think hurt his feelings, but I just can't handle people going through my phone. I will show you messages and texts if you really want to. Just ask.
I also understand that he gets really insecure, and so do I. I just wish there were someway to convince him that I am happy with him, and I don't intend on leaving him. I meant when I said I would marry him.
Ugh, I guess relationships take a bunch of work.
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I know exactly how you feel! I\'ve always been a flirt and my husband has gone through my stuff before too and its pissed me off. I honestly don\'t think flirting is any harm. Relationships are hard work. I hope you guys can resolve this. Hugs!
Thanks! We are working through it. Though sometimes it feels like he throws it in my face. Like today.... he said something about have fun flirting with people all day. Shit like that. I\'m proud cause the first time I\'ve been honest with him. I have a bad relationship track record lol. But, I told him I\'m not walking out of this one. At least not without a fight.
I always had problems with relationships too and I told my husband the same thing- I won\'t leave without a fight. & yes, hoensty is key. I\'ve cheated before and it ate me up until I told him. I\'m glad you all are working through it.
I\'m glad I\'m not the onlt dysfunctional one. Lol. It is weird cause this is the longest I\'ve remained faithful in a relationship. All my other ones I\'ve cheated. But I\'ve been pretty honest. We are doing a lot better too
Good, glad to hear that.