grateful to have found this group

I have been married to my AH for 16 years.  I guess that I've realized for half of that time that he is an alcoholic.  It hit he's what you call a functional alcoholic because he can drink coffee and go to work, but he starts drinking on the way home.  Also, whenevhard when I realized he was drinking cans of beer in soda fountain cups. I guess er he's not at work he's drinking, unless he's asleep.  He cantrols it somewhat when he's with his family because he thinks they believe he's sober after a stay in rehab.  They are not fooled.  Can anyone identify?

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bonblue
bonblue

Hi coping kathy
i hope you are having a gtrat weekend

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bonblue
bonblue

Just to let you kniw I two have been married for 16 + years to a ah whom for
years was able to handle very good but as he got older I notice his dreams and goals no longer existed only to get with his drinking buddies.
Now I do not plan anything with us for us due to the fact I know he will ruine
It for me. Its better Do things on my own. As you know its better with t