graphic. may be a trigger.
I really don't know what my wife sees in this guy, I am much more handsome then him, more intelligent, more athletic, to name a few.
He looks kinda sickly, has hep C from drug use when he was younger, I was told, and he is a little overweight.
The only thing he has me beat is in the sex department, but my wife, always wanting to vent to me when bf isn't around, has confided to me what a great lover he is and how his "you know what" pleases her deep inside. Sorry if TMI, relationships can get graphic at times. I can't help what I don't have but if she loved me, I would think she would overlook little details like that, if you know what I mean.
But I am glad she found someone to cater to her every whim but it's sad that is preventing her from growing as a person, but that's not my problem anymore.
He looks kinda sickly, has hep C from drug use when he was younger, I was told, and he is a little overweight.
The only thing he has me beat is in the sex department, but my wife, always wanting to vent to me when bf isn't around, has confided to me what a great lover he is and how his "you know what" pleases her deep inside. Sorry if TMI, relationships can get graphic at times. I can't help what I don't have but if she loved me, I would think she would overlook little details like that, if you know what I mean.
But I am glad she found someone to cater to her every whim but it's sad that is preventing her from growing as a person, but that's not my problem anymore.
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What is the saying...Beauty is in the eye of the beholder? I really doubt the relationship between her and BF will last but who knows...or cares - right???
She has made her choice it seems so time to move on and have a life of your own. Look to the future. HUGS!
Hep C is highly contagious. Be careful. There\'s no cure.
Thankyou Joyce I am trying.
Elizee I know and I spent alot of time researching it to understand my chances of contacting it and the risk, although extremely small is still there and that does make me a little nervous. Any blood spills by an infected person has to be washed immediately with bleach for example. That hasn\'t happened yet but there is always a chance, u never know.
Thanks
Yeah Bob. I\'m not sure what my ex sees in her new BF (formerly OM and now her fiancee) either. It used to bug me much more, but now I really don\'t care. Making myself get that former \"caring\" out of my head has really helped me to feel better overall. It good that you\'re starting to process that.
I like your last line \"that\'s not my problem anymore\" - that\'s the way to move forward. Your ex is creating and perpetuating her own new problems, and these are no longer your concern at all.
Agree with Ellzeena - \"be careful\".
Cheers!
Holy crap! Stuff I\'m sure you have NO INTEREST in hearing.
I learned an early age to make this humming noise in my ears that covers up things I don\'t want to hear. I\'m not really sure how I do it, but it sounds like a strong wind, or the ocean.
Sounds like you could such a skill for when this woman talks of her conquests.
Yuck.
Thanks Dave I do something similar, I whistle alot. Pisses off the wife too but it makes me feel good, not so much pissing her off but just whistling.
Thankyou Arem, I am always trying to look to the future and make the best out of a bad situation. Thanks!
I am sure you already know this, but I think your wife has a REAL issue with sex. What the heck happened to her as a child, seriously! Telling you that stuff is innapropriate in so many ways! I know she wants to hurt you, but even still, I don\'t think I could ever get that detailed with my soon to be ex spouse. I mean, something like \"he is great in bed\" is one thing, but the details...what horror! You are a much better person than I am. (((HUGS)))
I read your journals now and again. I cannot wrap my head around your relationship with this woman! pretty much passionless, huh? Though sounds nice in some ways cus I could use a break form all the passionate fighting. ;) Still...i don;\' know how you haven\'t cut his dick off and shove it down her throat. That is what my first thought would have been if i was in your shoes when she told me that. Did this not hurt you VERY much? (In case you don;t know i was joking...i am not an advocate of violence...but that was more like fantasy cartoon violence in my imagination.)
Is she TRYING to provoke some emotion out of you?
Thanks laurap, but no, I am not better then you, I don\'t believe in one being better then another. Yes my wife did have sex issues as a kid growing up which initially turned her off to sex but when her younger brother committed suicide and she was contacted by a childhood sweetheart, her attitude toward sex changed 180 degrees.
Kory yea, I think she is trying to provoke emotion in me and she is insensed that I don\'t give her that emotion. I am the type that keeps my emotion inside anyway. ahh well. Thanks
Bob you\'re seriously such a good guy! Your wife....I\'m sorry but she really has no class. Does she really think you want to listen to her vent or discuss her sex life with her new man? You guys aren\'t even divorced. It\'s just wrong on so many levels.
Honestly, do you see yourself ever telling her that you\'re glad you two are civil (ahem sort of right?) but that you don\'t need to hear about her relationship woes with her boyfriend?