grandma.........

so m grandparents came over yesterday to have lunch, carve a pumpkin and bake some cookies.....just to kind of get them out of th house and visit and stuff like that.....so they know my dad is moving and my dad was talking to them and my grandma said,"they've always been there for you so now you hafta be there for them and not complain and support them..." she was talking to me and my brother....and i nodded and she said,"val?? did you hear what i said?? they've always been there for you so now you hafta be there for them and not complain and support them.." and i nodded as the anger, hurt and dispresepct built inside me.......why was she singling me out????!!!!!!!! yes i've had some tough times, but i'm still an adult....i can deal with this.....and why was she telling ME not to complain????!!!! i'm sorry if i complain, but i think i'm entitled to!!! this is a HUUUUUUGE life change and all of a sudden i'm just supposed to pick up and move and not let this bother me???? i felt so hurt that she was singling me out and i felt like she was telling me that i was being difficult and that i was being a selfish bitch.....just made me so down!!!!!