My Grandma apparently does not want to move in with us despite my dad's and uncle's attempts at trying to convince her to. I guess she doesn't want to lose her voice. She was saying to my dad that she's afraid I won't listen to her. And that's probably true if she's talking about when she may tell me to do something around the house. I just feel that it isn't her place to be telling me what to do. It's just that this isn't her house. Plus, i'm 32 years old. She needs to ask me first not just push like my dad does. If she needed a favor or something I may be able to help her depending on what it is of course. But of course the whole thing about possibly losing her voice isn't the only reason she wouldn't want to move in with us. She has bad memories of this town from when my dad was growing up. She doesn't want the memories to come flooding back. Plus, she doesn't want to lose her independence which is understandable. I don't know. I hope this all makes sense. I just don't think my schizophrenia, depression and anxiety can handle her moving in here. It would just be way too much to handle.