Got a New Condo / I\'m Free

Talked to the stbx this morning. She doesn't want to talk to me, says to talk to her lawyer.  I said that I thought we had a verbal agreement, that she would move into a condo, I would move back into the house, sell it, split the proceeds, pay some alimony, move on with life. Sounds simple.  But she informed me (yet again) how much I've hurt her over the years, how terrible I've treated her, so she wants her day in court. IF the judge grants everything I ask for, that's OK, but she wants to hear it from the judge.   So I called the atty, and he will proceed with the offer letter we discussed.  He told me that I need a home before the hearing, so I went out and rented one of the nicer condos I saw last month, will move in on Aug 1.   She called later in the day and said she made appts with realtors to look at condos. I said too late, I already got one. And then referred her to my atty for any further discussions. You know what, I'm not even phased. I should have known she wouldn't live up to our verbal agreement, she hasn't in 20+ years, why would I think she would this time?  The attys, thats just money. I don't even care about that, I just want to move on. I have so many blessings in my life, my children, my family, my friends, my church, I just don't have the inclination to deal with her BS, so I won't.  I am not going to argue with her, that is what she likes to do.  I'm free of that.  Makes me think of that song from Tommy, I'm free, and freedom tastes of reality.