got a letter

Today it was a bit frustrating with T.  Tutoring plans fell through because T didn't like the way we (tutor and I) changed them.  I wanted to scream.  Well, I DID raise my voice.  T has missed so much school and now that he has the opportunity to recover what he missed - he's blowing it.  Must let go.  He's so close to finishing - been there before and then....bam!  must let go...   I just received an official looking letter from the school addressed to me.....not Mr. & Mrs. but to me.  What could this be about?  We receive mail every week informing us of another detention or two our son has earned over the course of the year that piles up due to past tarties or unexcused absenses but this one was only addressed to me.  It was a letter inviting me to breakfast at the school.  The middle school and high school administration along with other parents (I'm sure, who've been through the drug thing) are getting together to talk about the drug problem and brain storm, problem solve.  The letter mentioned all the programs they have to try and combat this problem but "Regardless, the use of drugs increases and proliferates."  So the school is asking for my help.  I had some ideas a bit ago but now that I have this opportunity - I couldn't think of anything.  Well, it didn't take me long.  I am looking forward to this meeting.  I hope what I propose is taken seriously and is helpful.  

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How great to be invited -- ! No simple solutions, as we know........I hope this is a group that you find productive and enjoyable.

T does not seem to do well with change....especially if he\'s not part of the decision making process. Although, some of it seems to be a lack of empathy for the other persons needs/ POV. Most would go with the flow........hope he continues with the tutoring and passes!!!!!! Take Care!
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You really should be honored to be included in this discussion. I know you will be helpful.

I understand about the \"letting go\" thing. I have had to do it and I must admit it is one of the hardest ONGOING things in my life...

Take care my friend