God Help Us
i am just so sick of doing so good and then failing sooooo badly.. sometimes i start to get really mad at my husband.. he knows i want to quit all these bad, sinful habits, but he continues to do them in front of me and encourages me to gamble..he says he don't have a problem with any of the things i want out of our lives..and i know that i kinow that he loves me, he is just stuck in addicts denial...i am stuck in addicts hell.. knowing smoking, gambling and drinking is just wrong for soooo many reasons, but still let these things have power over me..God Help us!!
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I hope God helps you and your husband to get better. I hope you feel better soon. If you ever need someone to talk to let me know.
I know how you feel. When I was trying to quit smoking and drinking, my ex would insist on going to places where that\'s all they did. At least you are not in denial. big Hugs.
You can only live your life, not your husbands. If you want to quit these things bad enough, you can! You cannot quit for your husband. These changes you want to make are to better YOUR life. You can do it for yourself. Hugs to you! Sandie
You can do this. One day at a time. This is your journey and your life. Don\'t let your hubands actions dictate yours. I wish you all the best. 24 hours is all you need. Hugs Suzi
That is your strength...you can do something about it. Keep fighting to stay GF and alcohol free. You can provide the example and maybe he will see the light. I hope the best for you. I know you are torn between staying in recovery and keeping a marriage together, but just imagine how much worse it would make it if you continued to gamble, drink and smoke. Keep fighting. I\'ll pray for you and your husband.
chris