God, help my son

i cant write much, very busy today. this journal is not to complain but to ask all to pray. there is power in pray and God does answer. i am having problems with my son who is group home. he is so struggling. he as changed so much and is really struggling. he was almost on level 4 and ready for discharge but has dropped to level to. he is upset cause after discharge he will go to foster care or other less restrictive home. he wanted to go to his dads but that is no longer an option due to choices his dad is making. cant come home cause of abuse on my daughters. i got call last night fom head counslor at home. nick was put on suicide watch. he is very angry and wants transfered out of that home but we all feel he is only running from his problems. he has been very disrespectful to me and other family members so i have been showing tough love and he is angry. when he has bad day and its not my night to call him he tells who does call he wants to talk to me and not them. we decided this was not right and he was told to talk to them or no one. that he could not hurt that person cause he was having a bad day. so now he said i am not to come see him tomorrow. it is his 16th birthday and i was going. this ripped my heart to pieces but cant let it hurt and manipulate to get what he wants. please pray for him and for wisdom for me to help him. i love him more than life itself and his hurting is killing me inside. thanks in advance. i know God is good and can do all things and will hear the crys of his people.