Goals, goals

All the time we have to cope with some goals. We set some, some are set by others...I am trying to deal with a number of problems. Two most significant are my lying problem and my relationship with my wife. They are linked, however succeding in one doesn't mean the same with the other. But there are other goals too.Those "other"  goals also influence my relationship. I can't even say for sure if they are actually less important than two first. One is finding a job. Theoretically I've got pretty good CV, a lot of experience, proper education. I am also able to relocate (I hope some time alone will allow both of us state some things more clear). But... There is something wrong with my job searching. I am still unemployed (I run own business, but it doesn't benefit at the moment and perspectives are rather poor) despite I've been looking for a job for half a year by now.I am overweighed. It isn't very much, but still. I want to lose few kilos. It might seem totally unimportant, but I can see a change in my look. And She can see it also. Perhapse it wouldn't matter if there were no other problems. But they are and it doesn't look like they will be solved soon.I wan't to support my Wife. I try but sometimes I fail. Like with teaching Her English. I have all skills to do that (well, do I actually?) and yet for some reason it doesn't work. We were trying numerous times, starting again and again. Each time we had 2 or 3 lessons and then there were "more important things" during the time that was scheduled for English. I feel guilty for this.I'm coping with my lack of self organization. Again - seems not connected with my relationship? Well, it is. I'm at home, I should do something (prepare a dinner, clean up somewhat or whatever). And what do I do? Read books. I know the time is running but it is so interesting... I'm saying to myself "Just five more minutes"... And I repeat it some 30 times... And then... There is no time for my duties, She is disapointed (everyone would if there was no dinner without reason when he/she'd been back from job, huh?), and my rating goes down...I have no idea how to cope with all those things. Maybe saying it aloud will motivate me a bit more? It is easier to fight with something we can give a name to...