Giving Up

Thinking of giving up on this weight loss thing. I think I would be a much happier person if I wasn't hungry all the time. So much of my life revolves around food.
For the shin-dig with the family Dave put a pork roast in the crock pot and I made coleslaw. We had some nice big rolls and made pulled pork and coleslaw sandwiches with potato chips and ice tea. I did have a big fruit plate for everyone. Then we had these pretty yellow mini (lemonaide) cupcakes with white centers that looked like flowers for Ren'ees cake (I put them all on a big round plate, they looked like a big bouquet of flowers) and I bought real vanilla ice cream to go with it.
I can not think of how I could have been more successful with low fat anything in this meal? I did get pineapple sherbert, which just happens to be super yummy with lemon cake and of course, the fruit.
So then it comes down to exercise, which all of you know is difficult, at best, when you never know if you'll be able to walk before or after. I need to get back into the gym, swimming is what I love most. Excellent exercise and doesn't hurt.