GIRLFRIEND TALK, ONLY I.F. Girls will get it!!
Ok I am a bit better today. AMAZING what a glass of wine will do!! Anyways, I am applying for another grant for a donor cycle thats due Nov.13. Hopefully we get it! I teach ZUMBA fitness and I have this 28 year beautiful girl that comes to all my classes and she is african american like me!! Guess what? she has been married for 5 years and does not want CHILDREN! It takes all my power not to say "Hey if you aint gonna use those eggs can I have em" Ok, I just bust out laughing to myself!! BUT seriously I want her eggs! SHe and my hubby would make gorgeous children and she works out like a mad women like me, teacher like me and freakin sweet! No, not like me!! I ain't sweet all the time!! She is so smart, but she said that she really doesn't want kids!! Shake MY FREAKIN HEAD!! Seriously, I gotta find a baby from someone cus I am losing my mind PEOPLE! Foster care classes start at the end of the month so hopefully within the end of the school year I can put these mothering instincts to work!! THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR SUPPORT on my last journal entry!
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Good luck with the grant and the foster classes!
Oh, you know I\'ve \"sized\" gals up before in real life, wondering if they could loan me eggs or a uterus! IF stalking is perfectly normal What problem officer?
OMG girl, I do that all the time now when I see a cute little inter racial chick, makes me feel so like a creep like \"hey how much for your eggs!\" hehehe! Glad you are feeling better! XO
Glad to hear you are feeling better. Also good luck with the grant and the fostering, sounds like a great plan.
Glad to hear you are feeling better and yay on the fostering classes. I almost feel sad for that girl because she is taking so much for granted never say never because one day she might change her mind and willbe exactly where a lot of us are today ... I hope you get word of a grant soon and can be on your way to a new cycle
Glad you are feeling better. If you knew her well enough i\'d ask for her eggs. I had a night with friends last night and obe asked if I\'d use a surrogate. I ssid that\'s what my re wsnts and an other said I\'d do it for you... lots of wine drinking so I\'m not sure it was a real offer but one can hope.
Keep her close. She seems like she could be a good friend and you necer know.
I totally get where you are coming from...I find myself doing that sometimes...you just want to say...\"excuse me? But if you don\'t want them...do you mind if I take a few of them off your hands??\" LOL I\'m glad to hear that you are looking into all your options...you seem like you will be a great mommy....at least from what I have read.
This makes me smile and cry.
Hoping and praying for you.
Haha, just ask her....in a joking way, see how she reacts,throw out there the old, we need a donor, haha you could do it if you don\'t need them. You never know
lol I\'ve always said after dealing with IF us women looking at other women thinking \"I want to have her babies\" has a whole new meaning!
Wine always works wonders :). I had myself a glass or two on Sunday after AF came. I really hope you get your grant so you can do a donor cycle. A friend of mine (who got pregnant with #1 2 months after they got married) just told me that instead of having #2 they are adopting. Which is awesome, but I\'m like, you can have your own kids and you are adopting?! Sounds crazy to me, but they have the means and want to help a child out, so more power to them. Good luck wtih your foster classes!!!
I wanted eggs from a girl I know. This talk was about 5 years ago when she was in her early 20s. It never worked out..... She married one year ago. She conceived on her wedding night. Ended at 6 weeks :( recently was pregnant again, also ended at 6 weeks... Never would have thought the eggs I wanted may come from a girl that was also hit by IF !!!!!!!!!! But I do understand where you are coming from!
So glad you are feeling better! And yes wine helps!:-) I have often looked at other women and thought...hmmm wonder if she would donate her eggs! LOL my friend who is divorced and back in the dating scene is fertile myrtle. She already has 2 kids. I warn her about taking precautions daily. She keeps saying if I do get prego, I\'m giving you the kid! lol