Getting ready...for first IVF cycle

Well, I'm taking BCP for about another 10 days then go in to speak with IVF coordinator about all the meds.  I'm on a micro-dose lupron flare protocol which means something like I don't take as much lupron for as long or something like that.  My ER is scheduled for 3/2 or 3/3 and plan do genetic testing and then transfer back 5 days later.  Trying not to get too obsessed this time and I'm not being negative but my mind set is that this could take up to 3-4 times before successful - if it will be.