getting people to listen to me...

I have written to the doctors to explain things to them. they do not, in my opinion, take her condition seriously.
i have run into this before, in maine, where her stories, which are her impression of the moment and based upon anger, make it difficult for these people to get on board, especially when they are used to dealing with the person that caused the difficulties for the child.
i have been dealing with outbursts, panic attacks, and what i can only describe as 'hissy fits' and they think that things are going fine.
she has told me that she is hiding things from them in order to get out of the therapy. She has told me that she was lying.
I have to make them understand.